Saturday, April 4, 2009

alone..


hav u ever been to an outing alone by yourself?..only u noe da answer to dat particular question..as for me,i juz did today..finally after quite a long time i did it again..n guess wut..i felt so gud juz now..

well,u might think dat it's boring to go out alone n hav fun juz on ur own..it's not..really it isn't..when u r out there alone,it's u who decide everything..on whether or not u want to watch a movie..how many movies u want to watch..which kind of movies..where do u wanna hav ur meal..when ur going to hav it..in fact,everything..it's like u r spending times with ur ownself..

to be frank,since i came to college merely 2 years ago,i rarely go out alone..i dun noe y..but then when i finally did 2day,i feel so gud n calm..mayb i'm not suitable to go out with the presence of other lads..mayb i'm a 1 man person..when it comes to outing of course..

well,i'm sure dat diz isn't the last..there'll be more to come of course..hope dat the feeling will last..

10 comments:

  1. starhill..huhu..i watched 2 movies u noe..:P

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  2. Well, well...
    for your information, i've been going out alone most of time since the second semester ...
    there are different fun and joy you will get when you go out in a big group and go out on your own...
    if you go out with the right person/people, you will not feel boring or any negative feeling but joy, joy and joy...
    as long as going out with the right person/people, you would definitely have fun..
    Going out alone undoubtedly has its pros and cons too..
    anyway, it depends on what kind of person you are...
    if you dont like to be in a big group (like your best friend... huhu... O.o), maybe you can lessen your outing with them but still you must not isolate yourself from others because 'no man lives as an island'...
    anyway, sometimes you wish to be on your own to feel your freedom and don't have to stress yourself over the decision made by the majority but sometimes you will wish someone will be there to share your feelings: happiness, sadness, etc...
    so strike a balance and your life will be more wonderful and free of stress in term of having outing...
    and think twice before you act...
    for eg. when you are moody, you'd better go out alone unless there is someone who does not mind listening to your grumble....
    After all, it depends on oneself and what kind of friends one has...
    anyway, just enjoy whatever you are doing which you have fun and love as long as it is not illegal or bring harm to others...

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  3. heyya..heyya..
    wah?..really?..i'm surprised..haha..i thought u always went out with da seniors most of da time..
    hm..lone ranger also la ni..lalala..
    well,wutever it is,i think dat ur absolutely rite..it should be well-balanced in order to ensure dat everything will turn out fine..but i still in favour of going out alone..because i didn't think dat anyone would be able to cater my needs when going out..(watching lotz n lotz of movies n eat anytime i want)..huhu..
    but i won't abandon my companions..wutever happens,i'll still stick with them..i'll juz spend sum times with myself once in a time..

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  4. Hey..my first time here..
    it's cool dat you're able to go out on your own..You must have felt that sense of accomplishment, right? It shows apparently through the writing..I know very well it's not easy to do so cos I've never done so except for buying food at Scud..hihi..Some people tend to feel really insecured being alone..even getting to do things on your own seems less fun without company, you know..but I guess you've passed that stage of insecurity. So, congrats!

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  5. heyya emira..finally ya..haha..
    ya as a matter of fact,i did..well,actually i've been doing that so many times b4 but i've stopped when i came to ipba..n it felt so good to be able to do so after quite a long time..
    n ur rite bout da insecure thing,especially 4 a gurl rite..well,i'm not saying dat it's not fun at all to go out with company,it's juz i feel dat we should spend sum quality times with our ownself..to get to know ourself better..dun u tink so?..huhu..

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  6. dude.stop running away from others.haha

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  7. hey..i'm not running away kay..juz need a little getaway..kah3

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  8. haha.dude lets hang out later in may.i'll be back by then.ajak anas(although i know its hard to actually BRING him to outing XD).

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  9. anas?..r u sure?..in our dream might be possible la kot..kah3..but i think he's changed though..lalala

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