Saturday, February 12, 2011

Can a Man and a Woman be just "friends"?



what a question..of course,there are no right or wrong answer to this particular question..however,I will try to provide my views from both sides..

Man and Woman can be just "friends"
-let say if hosni and lisa are just friends,it might be that they found each other unattractive..in other words,hosni is not attracted to lisa at all and lisa too..therefore, they're able to suppress their 'loveness'(is there such word?) from growing..it might be a cruel fact,but that's the truth(might be)..

Man and Woman can't be just "friends"
-most of us will agree with this one..definitely..i've heard people saying that 'ahhh,there're no ways that it could happen..it's just tooooo illogical'..i think it's like a chain reaction effect..break the ice,be friends, and then u noe wut..

well,wutever it is,I think that it's possible both ways..but one thing for sure,it's really hard if a friend is in love with his or her friend..i noe this for sure because i hav a friend who used to love his girl bestfriend in secret..n seeing him,i could clearly see the suffering that he had to endure all these years..when i talked to him,he simply said,'no worries,as long as i could make her happy,that's the only thing that matters'..now that's what u called 'unconditional love'..

14 comments:

  1. I like this kind of entry much better, You should write something about relationship more often. Because I will surely read those! haha

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  2. ahahahaha..ok teacher!!..but do you think they can or can't be just friends? :D

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  3. As my dad says "tak ada istilah kawan antara lelaki dan perempuan" haha. entah la, it depends kot. they can be friends as long as there is no hope or any kind of romantic feelings appear

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  4. u got a point there, noah! but still, they're best friends,after all. :)perhaps it's better to be that way. noah, r u that guy? hahahhaha.

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  5. aida:ur dad could be right or could be wrong..it all depends..juz like wut u said..haha..it will take toooooo many guts from both sides to make it a success :D

    niny:better to be that way?..wonder what that means..haha
    of course i'm not that guy..i'm not that strong lorhh..hahahaha..

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  6. ili:thanks 'my path towards'..haha

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  7. gagagaga..maybe better they can be a good couple..who knows?like "lucky" song..ngeee

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  8. haha..man and woman..sooooo unpredictable :D

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  9. there's always a mutual feeling between a man and a woman. thts called law of attraction. if ye don't have it, yr gay.

    if being friends is harmful, then its nt good.
    Though not being friends with women is illogical too. If the whole world thinks like this, we'd have a separate continent of men & women.

    as long as yr nt harmed by this friendship, go with it, within an acceptable limits of course.

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  10. hey..this post reminds me kat lagu 'lucky im in love with my best fren'~heee..nice 1 noh..:)

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  11. jim: totally agree with ya..wonderful piece of advice,i shall pass it to my companion later..i also think that it's fine to become friends with anyone,but the level of our self-control shud be very high..

    norfa:haha..dat's a gud one..thanks!!!!!!!!

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  12. there can't never be a definite answer to this question :D

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